Tell Us Your Secrets....

Mel Gets Married: I'm Engaged!

From the time that most women are little girls, they start planning (well, more like dreaming) for their wedding days. As cliché and stereotypical as this sounds, we women all know in the cockles of our hearts that this statement is true....read more...

My Health Guru Calley,

Ok we all have our vices, so please help. I need to clean up my body. If you could recommend quitting smoking or drinking, which do you think would be most beneficial to me?

Help Me! Luscious Lush

Read on for Advice...

My Health Guru Calley,

Hello, I always seem so down and have no energy. It’s hard to get out of bed in the morning. I have no time (and extra funds), for a gym. Can you recommend a few stretches or exercises that can give me a boost in the morning? Hitting the snooze button just isn’t cutting it.

Get me out of my slump, Frozen and Broke in Buffalo

Read on for Advice...
1 comment

A Social Experiment in Texting Reveals the Not So Shocking Truth That We Are Slaves to Technology, Some Phones Are Better Than Others, And Men Love Sandwiches.

One day, weeks and weeks ago,  I was sitting around in a bar with the lovely Hope, and our friend Annika. Something was in the air that night, and we all seemed to be stressed out about our respective love interests. Small mention of this was made, and then we moved on to discussing important [...]

Mel’s Getting Married: Recruiting and Outfitting Your Army

Well ladies, Hope has asked me to do a series of wedding planning articles as I go through my personal planning process.  By series I mean she wants me to do one a MONTH until my actual date!  Hot diggity damn!  So, when deciding on a topic for the second installment, I thought it pertinent [...]

3 comments

Mel Gets Married: I’m Engaged! Now What?

From the time that most women are little girls, they start planning (well, more like dreaming) for their wedding days.  As cliché and stereotypical as this sounds, we women all know in the cockles of our hearts that this statement is true.  For most women, all of the hypotheticals that dance like the proverbial visions [...]

Get Off:Broadway that is, with BRUNCH The Musical

I love going to a Broadway show. I love the music, the costumes, I love everything about it. I think the thing I love most is the inspiration it gives me for those few hours after I leave my seat. My head filled with thoughts such as: “Don’t go out drinking, work on writing a [...]

5 comments

The “Man Basket”

Over the years I have always struggled when shopping for the men in my life.  Usually my dad and brother being the hardest.  For Valentine’s Day this year I wanted something little to give my boyfriend.  We don’t usually make a huge deal out of Valentine’s Day and neither of us had a lot of [...]

6 comments

Happy Valentines Day

It is the 1st Valentine’s Day for my dear Chorizo, and I couldn’t think of anyone I would rather share it with. In ode to her I thought, about all the reasons that she really is a ladies best friend. Behold, my top 10 reasons that I would rather have my kitty over any man….
10. [...]

4 comments

Zeljko Ivanek: Old Man Crush #2

Ladies, I was quite put off by the backlash I received over my last love. So to all those I offended, family and friends, I apologize to no one. I have broadened my horizons, and am now after a foreign man none the less. Ivy leaguer, Zeljko Ivanek is most definitely is out of my league, but you [...]

6 comments

I Bang The Worst Dudes

Ladiessssss  - New Website Alert: i bang the worst dudes (sorry, mom). 
If you are still reading, then you have apparently been able to accept the appalling name of this latest blog. This site is merely a list of guys who have fornicated with the writer(s). The author politely adorned the men’s eyes with a black [...]

6 comments

Six ways to Sidle-Up: Hit on Him.

Meeting people is hard, really, really hard. I live in the biggest city in the nation, and I still rarely stray from the comfort zone of  my tried and true friends. Calming the nerves is my biggest problem when approaching someone new, and this is just something that needs to be overcome. Believe me, it [...]

12 comments

Michael Emerson: Old Man Crush #1

I will admit, I do face some ridicule at times for this crush of mine. I find Michael Emerson from LOST terribly attractive.
His character Benjamin Linus, former leader of The Others, has everything I would want in a mate. He is witty, resourceful, a natural leader and determined. I do not care that his body [...]